Comfort and Support

There I was, alone, scared, and miserable on a Wednesday morning, approaching the church where the OA meeting was held. I wandered forlorn into the main entrance. Church services were being celebrated, and I had no idea where to go or even who to ask. No one seemed to know where I should go. I wandered around this mammoth church and finally found myself in a classroom with a large group of strangers, about twenty minutes late. Me? I didn’t ever just walk into a room of strangers—and late, no less. More scrutiny I didn’t want. I had already eaten a favorite dessert for breakfast to find the courage to come.

I tried to blend into the walls, but these wonderful people kept me engaged. All I could think when I heard their shares was, “How do these people know what’s in my head? I don’t know any of them.” At the end of the meeting, one wonderful woman approached me, told me I was welcome there, and gave me a big hug! I was overwhelmed with the love, fellowship, and support I felt. Those forty minutes changed my life. I was hungry, not for food, but for the comfort I received. I was finally home.

And now, four and a half years later, all I can say is: “Keep coming back! It works if you work it!” The love, hope, and support I found in OA has been better than any type or amount of food. I learn something new at every meeting, and the hope and comfort I get there reinforces my program. My Higher Power led me to this meeting, and keeps me coming back, not only for the gifts I receive, but for the opportunity to help a newcomer like me. I never want to forget how that first day changed my life!

—Marilyn R., Marietta, Georgia USA