“What we do have to offer is . . . a Fellowship in which we find and share the healing power of love” (The Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of Overeaters Anonymous, Second Edition, p. 1). I recently shared my experience, strength, and hope regarding responding to someone who pushes my buttons. I shared how I literally apply love. When I am in someone’s presence and notice I am having feelings, whether feelings of irritation, annoyance, frustration, or anger, I silently affirm, “I love you,” repeatedly. I continue this silent affirmation each time the person comes to mind until the

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