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Alternative to “Abstinence”

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I object to the word “abstinence” in the OA pamphlet A Commitment to Abstinence. Alcoholics abstain from booze or they don’t. Overeaters cannot avoid eating (unless they go down the rabbit hole of anorexia or bulimia). I know you justify “abstinence” as refraining from overeating or other eating disorders. It sounds fake to me. Would OA as an organization consider the word “moderation” to be valid instead? Thank you for your thoughtful letter about using the word “moderation” in place of “abstinence.” If you would like the Fellowship as a whole to consider such a proposal, the procedure would be to

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