Fellowship Recovery IDEA Event Well-Worked By admin Posted on November 1, 2018 3 min read 1 Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on Google+ Share on Reddit Share on Pinterest Share on Linkedin Share on Tumblr Our International Day Experiencing Abstinence event was well attended by many in our recovering community in Milwaukee. We opened with a speaker, then did a writing activity. Perhaps you could write about this topic too: “What is the difference between dieting and abstinence?” Then we read a Lifeline article (“Outside and In”) about the difference between trying to be abstinent versus being willing to be abstinent. We played a stand-up, sit-down game to indicate whether we’d tried anything described in the article. (That was our daily exercise! Ha!) Many comments arose from reading and discussing “Outside and In”: “If I am trying to be abstinent, it is my way or no way.” “If I am willing, I can learn.” “If I am struggling, I’m thinking I can do this myself.” “I can lean on God and surrender.” We closed our IDEA event with a “morning abstinence prayer”: “Higher Power, today is a new day for me and with your help it can be a day of abstinence. I ask for your protection, in case sometime during the day my desire to overeat is greater than my desire to abstain. I also ask for your protection from anyone or anything that may interfere with my abstinence. I know that I am powerless over food. I believe you will restore me to sanity. Please help me to know your will for me today and give me the willingness to carry that out. I turn my life over to you.” When I say this prayer, I also turn over my will and my food. — Edited and reprinted from Out of the Cocoon newsletter, Milwaukee Area Intergroup, First Quarter 2018